Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
If you have ANY doubt in your mind about a man s character, leave him alone.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that s not meant to be. .
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no you can t "be friends." A friend wouldn t mistreat a friend.
Have faith in God/Goddess/Great Spirit/The Universe regarding your relationship, but don t let faith make you stupid. God/Goddess/Great Spirit/The Universe does things decent and in order.
Don t settle.
Don t stay because you think "it will get better." You ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
There s only one reason a man dumps you; he doesn t want you.
Always put yourself and your happiness first.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.
Like from the show Sex and the City, if he doesn t call, he just isn t that interested.
Know when to cut the cord, don t be strung along
Don t fall for the "I m confused role". Remove yourself from the situation to let him figure things out (but don t wait for him, move on).
If you want to have a clue as to how he will treat you, watch how he treats the WOMEN in his family (not just mom).
Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Actions speak louder than words.
Never let a man define who you are.
If he cheated with you, he ll cheat on you.
Just because he says he loves you, doesn t mean that he won t hurt you and it doesn t mean that you are meant to be with him.
Know that you deserve to be the number one person in the life of the #1 person in your life.
Love is a verb.
Learn to give up your lifelong task of trying to make someone unavailable-available, someone ungiving-giving, and someone unloving-loving.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
If you don t love self...you can t love anyone else.
You cannot mend someone else s broken heart
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage...deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary..
NEVER give more in a relationship than you are getting out of it.
When actions and words conflict, believe the actions. Respond to the actions.
Don t fall for the "I m not the loving type"...when a man loves you there is nothing in this world (within reason) that he wouldn t do for you.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you re always readily available to him he takes it for granted..
When it s time to let go; let go.
Don t fully commit to a man who doesn t give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Never believe a man that tells you he want to be with you, while he s with someone else, - if he wanted to be with you, he would make it happen more sooner than later.
Don t be a man s door mat, make him open the door for you, because a real man would do this on his own.
There is someone out there worthy to be in your life, let out the trash so he can come in.
